There's an old Chinese saying called "ill weeds flower does not open, unintentionally inserted willow willows". I compare appreciation this sentence, because it does recognizes some ordinary people can't see truth.
But some people would doubt, don't get things done, opposing instead can do the trick? Of course not this meaning, dealing with here is not intentional said doing by heart, but that does not comply with thing itself to grind, the development rule do, so cost a lot of effort has made completely opposite effect.
So whether do all things to worry about, this happens? It certainly isn't at school calculate arithmetic, 1 + 1 = 2, it is difficult to calculate wrong, because everything is so simple, not many variables. The reality in the things more difficult, career, marriage, love, almost everything become this sentence of portraiture. Here I don't intend to discuss how to get things done, because the topic is too big, can't words say clearly, Only hope to speak on how to don't make things worse, this is every do things had been used by throws, make jokes can speak out some reason.Christian Louboutin Boots
I think people make things worse subjective mistakes over the objective conditions caused by insufficient, and subjective mistakes are three: the root cause of vanity, jealousy and utilitarian heart, actually this three is the mutual influence, this case gluttony. A man loves vanity, have no so big contribution is hoping to get so big of glory, nature would violate laws, and put themselves in position; contradiction And the glory of the others put before him, whether by what way to acquire, he himself because love vanity, it can be very jealous; On the basis of jealousy he wants to change the status quo, rapid surpass others glory, nature would choose the utilitarian method... If this practice didn't bring the blood, he might be able to reflect upon your own mistakes, and once taste blood, there may be a shield.
Of course there are also on this reasoning, are skeptical that the practice of above at all ignore use? Many speculators are obtained by means of it.some hope gains, it is already "complete" meritorious deeds, and criticize them are is most likely to watch others fished benefits, mind envy vilified them out. This time we will ask yourself, what exactly is to righteousness to criticize others, or for inner jealousy, if the latter or losses, because vanity, do envy, utilitarian three that is linked together, apparently essentially unimportant matters little envious, are likely to develop themselves strangely opportunism.
Then we'll come back to analyze these speculative activists whether got real success. Take the example of love, if a man loves vanity, he may try to seek a mass of women's eyes, because GuoSe tip looks is the easiest to everyone see, But once you find such woman, he may be another will at all costs to pursue her, even use means of cheating, But once got her feelings, it may be because satisfy the moment of vanity and full responsibility for the love lose interest. Then he may have been the vanity satisfaction as the essence of love, thus to everything true love built. In this speculation in the game, being cheated woman also is not innocent, because only twofold: first, excessive vanity woman will carefully into the game.Christian louboutin Black
There's a phrase in siege, called "wai outside the people want to go in, the people of the town came to marriage, or career or life wishes mostly so", this is not the world laughs at no clear their purpose before sank into a vanity of reincarnation?
Of course, I do not want to prove vanity, envy and utility as floods beast as must be wiped out. In fact, vanity is honor extreme performance, jealousy is the morale of the extreme performance, utilitarian heart is dedication of the extreme performance, and the relative extreme is not know which honour, enterprising, negative bishi. Perhaps, the traditional culture of "mean" thought is in tip us, do not go to extremes...